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How to protect children from paedophilesChild ProtectionWhat parents and caregivers can do Sexual abuse takes many forms and can at any one time involve forcing, tricking, bribing, threatening or pressuring a child into sexual awareness or activity. Sexual abuse occurs when an older or more knowledgeable child or an adult uses a child for sexual pleasure. The abuse often begins gradually and increases over time. Children are naturally trusting and dependent, so physical force is not often used to engage them in sexual activity. They want to please others and gain love and approval. Many children are taught not to question authority and to believe that all adults are always right. Child sexual abusers or paedophiles know this and take advantage of these vulnerabilities in children. Sexual abuse is an abuse of power over a child and a violation of a child's right to normal, healthy, trusting relationships. Educate your child about sexual abuse and keep communication lines open about it. If children are equipped with safety measures for prevention and information on how to report any incidents that may feel "strange" or "uncomfortable", they are at least aware of basic prevention skills. If your child appears to be unusually afraid of a certain adult, find out why. It may be a simple problem with a simple solution, or it may indicate a more serious situation. If it looks too good to be true, it probably is. If a volunteer singles out your child, requesting to spend an unusual amount of time alone with your child, or perhaps lavishes your child with gifts and/or attendance at special events... Beware. Molestation can be a single event, however, more often it is a lengthy process which includes gaining the child's trust. We need to take the advice given to our school-aged children...do your homework! Becoming informed and educated about molestation and prevention is the first step. If you have any concerns about a child or children that you know, please phone the Auckland Central Police Station to contact the Auckland City Child Exploitation Team. Because most children cannot or do not tell about being sexually abused, it is up to concerned adults to recognise signs of abuse. Physical evidence of abuse is rare. Therefore, we must look for behaviour signs. Unfortunately, there is no one behaviour alone that definitely determines a child has been sexually abused. The following are general behaviour changes that may occur in children who have been sexually abused:
Children who have been frequently sexually abused can have more specific symptoms:
Often children do not tell anyone about sexual abuse because they:
Silence enables sexual abuse to continue. Silence protects sexual offenders and paedophiles and hurts children who are being abused. Paedophilia is an extremely difficult and damaging experience. Today there are many resources to help victims and their families. Children no longer need to suffer in silence. Try to teach children about all forms of sexual abuse in order to increase their awareness and coping skills. Without frightening children, provide them with appropriate safety information and support at every stage of their development. Provide personal safety information to children in a matter-of-fact way, with other routine safety discussions about fire, water, health, etc. Although even the best educated child cannot always avoid sexual abuse, children who are well prepared will be more likely to tell you if abuse has occurred. This is a child's best defense. In order to protect children, teach them:
If you have any concerns about a child or children that you know, please phone the your local Police Station. |
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